Plenty of large sets are bought by adults, and a good number are bought as a birthday present for a nephew and quietly finished by an uncle. It is a reasonable hobby, but it suits a narrower personality than the internet suggests, and it is worth being honest about what the experience is actually like over a long evening.
The satisfaction is mechanical rather than aesthetic. A finished frame structure is not a display object in the way a model ship is; it is a working thing that runs, turns or holds weight. If that distinction does not appeal, this is not the hobby for you.
Large models involve long stretches of identical assembly: forty of one sub-unit, then forty more. Some people find that meditative and some find it maddening, and there is no way to know which you are without trying a mid-sized set first. The larger models at https://knex-us.com/, including the coasters and the wheel of around 1.8 metres, are all built from a great many repeated elements.
A tall model needs a permanent home, a level surface and enough clearance to reach the top. Adults who build in a shared living room usually dismantle within a fortnight, which removes most of the point. Measure the space before choosing the model, not afterwards.
The tolerances are those of a toy. Long spans sag, tall towers develop a lean, and mechanisms need adjustment after a few runs. Anyone arriving from precision modelling should expect to make peace with approximate results, or to spend their evenings bracing things.
Buy a mid-sized set rather than the flagship. If you enjoy it, the parts combine with anything else you add later; if you do not, you have lost a modest amount and you own a present for someone else’s child. This is one of the few hobbies where the trial version is genuinely representative.
Adults who keep at it almost all stop following booklets within a year. The interesting work is designing a mechanism that does something specific, which is closer to engineering sketching than to model-making. That phase needs a decent stock of parts and a table nobody else wants, which is the honest total cost of the hobby.